Chiron stations Retrograde on July 11, 2020 at 5:09 pm ET.
Where has your identity been wounded? Have you been hurt by others, and their opinions of who you are? Do you feel like you never measure up because others have conditioned you to not believe in yourself? Have you been deeply affected by how you were treated in your childhood? Do you hold onto shame, embarrassment or self criticism that keeps you from feeling happy and fulfilled in your life?
Chiron Retrograde in Aries is a paramount time to work on you own self discovery so you can heal your deepest wounds that have held you back from being empowered and proud of who you are.
If you have been holding yourself back from living your life to your fullest potential because negative feedback from others has stuck with you, this is an important time to figure out how to shed that skin for your own well being.
As we are growing up, people in our lives, our community and society around us can either help or hinder our psychological development which can have a significant impact on who we become.
Your mind is like a computer, and it is largely programmed by whatever you are exposed to in the world. Negativity and false beliefs that others project onto you, can become deeply ingrained in your psyche and who you believe yourself to be.
This is the time to get to know the real you on your own terms, and to brush away all the negative junk, memories, thoughts and feelings that have built up over the years and have only been holding you back.
This is the time to choose differently, and to choose to look at the truth of who you are through a different lens, a lens that has not been conditioned by the negativity and ignorance of others. Changing what you think and believe about yourself is a challenging process and can take a long time, but is most certainly worth the effort.
Trying to make sense of all the hurts from the past doesn’t always work. Things other people say and think can be so stupid because so many people are not developed in their own sense of self enough to know better. There’s nothing you can do about the ways others think, that is their job and their job alone to change, but you can change the way you think. You can change what you focus on and who you allow to be a part of your life so that you are surrounded by the very best.
You can reprogram your mind by exposing yourself to more positive people that believe in your potential. This is the time to focus on reinforcing the positive perspectives about yourself and ensuring you are exposing yourself to the things that make you feel good about yourself. It’s time to do things for yourself that are in your own best interest regardless of what others think you should or shouldn’t do or be according to their own false or misguided opinions.
The more you strengthen the pathways in your mind towards what is good about yourself, the stronger those pathways will become. The negative pathways will take a back seat and slowly fade away as you fill up your mind with better.
Taking care of yourself as you would take care of another to assist in their healing is essential now. Focus on the very best life has to offer and take advantage of the positive opportunities in life that interest you the most. Forgiving or releasing the past and looking toward a brighter future can open you up to a new world of experiences. This is a time to recreate yourself in your own image, to heal yourself and to shed layers of hurt that have stifled you from being the totally awesome version of yourself that you can be.
This is a great time to stop worrying about what other people are so concerned with about you. This is your life, nobody else’s, and you’ve got this chance to shine and be the real, authentic you regardless of what any naysayers may push your way. Other people’s fears, judgments, egos and opinions are not yours to fix. That’s their own problem to work through and none of your business. That’s the work they need to do for themselves to create their own happiness. Your business is your own life and your own happiness, and from there, you can help other people become happier with themselves simply by being the shining example of being good to yourself.
Chiron is Retrograde in Aries, we are likely to see a backlash toward the double standards we have been noticing for a while now in terms of clashes of identities in society. Why people are protesting and what people are standing for and against, can bring a new understanding to how hurt and pain can affect the way people think, believe and behave. Through better understanding of the roots of the issues, transformation toward better can take place.
Chiron Stations Direct on December 15, 2020 at 5:18 pm ET.
Chiron is in Aries from February 18, 2019 to January 2028.